EP 120: Jesus Wants To Minister To You! The Woman At The Well

Diana WinklerChristianity, shame

We are starting a new series about notable people in the bible, namely those who have suffered abuse. This week we will explore the story of the woman at the well. We’ll dive into the culture, history, geography, and glorious truths that are part of this story. Why was this conversation between Jesus and the woman at the well so …

Episode 72: Struggling With Not Enoughness, Disconnectedness And Shame: Dr. Bill Senyard

Diana Winklershame

Dr. Bill Senyard Is my guest this week who has this very intriguing app for healing from abuse and trauma! He is an experienced pastor, discipler, church revitalization specialist, lecturer and conference speaker with 25 years as a local church pastor. He is the author of twelve books and two on-line experiential paths to help people who struggle with identity, …

Episode 71: Is Purity The Same Thing As Virginity? Lydia Vreeman

Diana WinklerChristian marriage, dating, sexual assault, shame

Lydia Vreeman is my guest this week from the Holy Ship Podcast! She shares her personal story of being sexually assaulted by someone she trusted in the church. We talk about the difference between purity and virginity, and hope for those of us that have already done things we regret. We had such a fun time talking about dating, boundaries …

Episode 62: Surviving Abuse From A Therapist: Amy Nordhues

Diana Winklerclergy abuse, sexual abuse, sexual assault, shame

Imagine being a survivor of multiple abuses from childhood, and then the therapist that you chose to help you to heal from that abuse, abuses you as well. This is exactly what happened to our guest Amy Nordhues. We talk about her childhood, how she found her therapist, and the events that led to the betrayal of her trust. The …

Episode 48: Jumping Out Of A Third Story Window: Rob Decker

Diana WinklerHealth, men, Physical Violence, sexual abuse, sexual assault, shame, suicide

Sometimes in our lives, circumstances seem so hopeless that ending it all appears to be the solution to end the pain. That happened to my guest Rob Decker, when he decided to end it all by jumping out of a third story window-and surviving the fall. We will find out about his childhood abuse, being raised by parents who were …

Episode 37: How To Treat Everyone As A Valuable Child Of God: Rev. Dr. Marcia Ledford

Diana WinklerCharity, Christianity, sexual abuse, shame

How can we be more like Jesus in this world of pain, suffering, and evil? Is it our responsibility as Christians to care for the oppressed? The Rev. Dr. Marcia Ledford guides us in answering these kinds of questions with empathy and compassion. She candidly shares her upbringing in the Baptist church, her divine call to preach, and becoming a …

Episode 35: PTSD Of First Responders: Norm Wielsch

Diana WinklerHealth, Physical Violence, shame

Is there a difference between combat PTSD and First Responder PTSD? According to my guest, Norm Wielsch, your body recognizes them as the same thing. In my conversation with Norm, we hear about his father fighting during WWII and losing almost his entire family during the bombings. True to his father’s generation and culture, he never spoke about his war …

Episode 29: Men Too: Dr. Kelli Palfy

Diana Winklerclergy abuse, Episodes, men, Physical Violence, sexual abuse, shame, spiritual abuse

Hollywood and pop culture often give us the impression that men can’t be raped or sexually abused. Our guest today, Dr. Kelli Palfy, is here to dispel that myth and to give us the facts gleaned from her vast experience working in correctional facilities, the RCMP, and from her own doctoral research on why males don’t report sexual trauma. Dr. …

Episode 27: My Father Is A Pedophile-Jimmy Hinton Part 2

Diana WinklerChristianity, clergy abuse, Episodes, sexual abuse, shame, spiritual abuse

We continue our conversation with Pastor Jimmy Hinton this week, who had to turn his own father in to the police for pedophilia. Find out the sequence of events after Jimmy’s father is arrested and placed in prison with a life sentence. Jimmy describes how pedophiles think and how they abuse and manipulate their victims even from prison. He defines …

Episode 26: My Father Is A Pedophile: Pastor Jimmy Hinton Part One

Diana WinklerChristianity, clergy abuse, Episodes, sexual abuse, shame, spiritual abuse

Could you turn in your own parent to the police for committing unspeakable crimes of pedophilia? Would you be able to spot a pedophile in your midst? Pastor Jimmy Hinton and his family lived through this horrendous nightmare when he discovered that his father, a respected pastor and beloved member of the community, was secretly sexually abusing hundreds of children …

Episode 23: The Trauma Informed Church: Guest Suzanne Burns

Diana WinklerCharity, Christianity, Episodes, mental illness, Physical Violence, sexual abuse, shame

How do you help a girl with a crisis pregnancy? Should you give money to the homeless man on the corner? We will find answers to these questions and more with our guest Suzanne Burns of Foundation House Ministries. Suzanne talks candidly about the inspiration behind starting Foundation House and her own crisis pregnancy. She shares the joys and challenges …

Episode 20: Pastor Kyle Fox: What Does A Healthy Church Look Like?

Diana WinklerChristian Music, Christianity, clergy abuse, Episodes, shame, spiritual abuse

Do you know what are the signs of healthy church? Many survivors are shell shocked from the aftermath of abuse that they don’t even know if they can trust a church again. Our guest today is Diana’s pastor, Kyle Fox, Senior Pastor of Red Mountain Community Church. Come and find out important questions you should be asking when looking for …

Episode 17: What’s It Like Being In A Mending The Soul Group?

Diana WinklerDomestic Violence, Episodes, Physical Violence, sexual abuse, shame, spiritual abuse

If you are wondering if Mending the Soul small group is right for you, join us as Diana candidly talks about the process of joining a small group. She starts with the interview process, the requirements for joining a group, and what kind of experience you will have. She briefly reviews the array of essential abuse topics in the amazing …

Episode 16: Guest: Dr. Steve Tracy: God Is Healing Severe Abuse And Trauma

Diana WinklerDomestic Violence, Episodes, mental illness, Physical Violence, sexual abuse, shame, spiritual abuse

Don’t miss this incredible, inspiring episode as Diana interviews Dr. Steve Tracy, Founder and President of Mending The Soul. Dr. Tracy shares how his personal experiences with abuse and trauma inspired him and his wife Celestia to start the ministry of Mending The Soul. Learn about the many biblical and psychologically sound resources for healing abuse, and trauma that Mending …

Episode 14: Survivor Story: Sandy Phillips Kirkham – Let Me Prey On You

Diana Winklerclergy abuse, Episodes, Physical Violence, sexual abuse, shame, spiritual abuse

We have a survivor story of clergy abuse on today’s episode. Our guest is Sandy Phillips Kirkham, author of the book, Let Me Prey Upon You. It tells the horrific story of how she was methodically groomed by her youth pastor when she was 16 years old and suffered sexual, emotional, and physical abuse. Join us on a journey with …

Episode 13: Survivor Story: Roselly Genao – It’s Not That Easy To Leave

Diana WinklerDomestic Violence, Episodes, Physical Violence, shame

Join us for a captivating story of healing! Our guest is Roselly Genao. She tells of her close knit Catholic family and Dominican roots. As she goes through her college years, she struggled with her faith, depression, lack of self worth, and drinking. She entered into this abusive relationship and tried to leave twice after her boyfriend tried to kill …

Episode 12: Guest Dave Ebert: The Healing Power Of Laughter

Diana WinklerEpisodes, Physical Violence, sexual abuse, shame

Our guest on this week’s podcast, is Dave Ebert from Gifts4Glory Ministries. Dave shares his past struggles with depression, self worth, and thoughts of suicide. He has captivating stories of how he met the Lord, found his calling into improv comedy, and helps victims of sex trafficking to heal using improv classes. You will not want to miss this inspiring …

Episode 11: Survivor Story: Pastor Mark Sowersby – Forgiving The Nightmare

Diana WinklerDomestic Violence, Episodes, mental illness, Physical Violence, sexual abuse, shame

Our guest on today’s episode is Pastor Mark Sowersby. He shares his inspiring story of overcoming abuse, struggles with his weight, and dyslexia. He tells us powerful stories about meeting Jesus, going into the ministry, and learning how to forgive. Join us as he show us how he went from being a victim to being victorious!  www.forgivingthenightmare.com  mark@forgivingthenightmare.com  bio:  Reverend …

shame and guilt

The Truth About Shame

Diana WinklerDomestic Violence, Episodes, shame

Many of us wear a mask. We don’t let anyone see behind that mask. We think that what is under it is too hard for anyone else to bear. It is the mask of Shame and Guilt. Many of us survivors carry around a load of shame that we don’t deserve to bear. What Exactly Is Shame? The shame most …