EP 74: Weaponizing Marriage: Marcy Pusey: Part One

Diana WinklerChristian marriage, church planting, clergy abuse, dating, spiritual abuse, Travel

Marcy Pusey is our fun, interesting and empowering guest for you this week! We had a great conversation about a variety of important topics, we made it a two part series. I was going to come up with some clever way to introduce her, but I think she describes herself best: “Not only do I have the clinical degrees and …

Episode 66: I Don’t Want My Daughter To Suffer The Same Abuse I Did: Bridget Seavey: Part 2

Diana Winklerclergy abuse, Domestic Violence, Physical Violence, sexual abuse, sexual assault, spiritual abuse

We are continuing Bridget Seavey’s incredible story this week. With the birth of her daughter, she realized she did not want the abuse to continue to the next generation. She shares the repeated verbal, physical and sexual abuse that she endured, and what was the catalyst for finally standing up for herself and establishing boundaries. When her husband filed for …

Episode 65: Kicked Out Of The Church After Being Abused: Bridget Seavey

Diana Winklerclergy abuse, Domestic Violence, Physical Violence, sexual abuse

Why would a church kick a young girl out of the church she loves when she reports she has been abused by someone in the church? This is actually quite common in churches, and it happened more than once to our guest Bridget Seavey. She was raised in the Fundamental Baptist Church and was assaulted as a young girl by …

Episode 63: The Power Of Words To Destroy Or Heal: Allen Taylor

Diana WinklerChristianity, clergy abuse, men

“Sticks and stones will break my bones, but names will never hurt me!” Do you remember that chant from childhood? Well, we will find out from my guest Allen Taylor that verbal abuse is just as damaging as physical abuse. We are talking about Allen’s new book “I Am Not The King”. Allen candidly shares the story of his difficult …

Episode 62: Surviving Abuse From A Therapist: Amy Nordhues

Diana Winklerclergy abuse, sexual abuse, sexual assault, shame

Imagine being a survivor of multiple abuses from childhood, and then the therapist that you chose to help you to heal from that abuse, abuses you as well. This is exactly what happened to our guest Amy Nordhues. We talk about her childhood, how she found her therapist, and the events that led to the betrayal of her trust. The …

Episode 29: Men Too: Dr. Kelli Palfy

Diana Winklerclergy abuse, Episodes, men, Physical Violence, sexual abuse, shame, spiritual abuse

Hollywood and pop culture often give us the impression that men can’t be raped or sexually abused. Our guest today, Dr. Kelli Palfy, is here to dispel that myth and to give us the facts gleaned from her vast experience working in correctional facilities, the RCMP, and from her own doctoral research on why males don’t report sexual trauma. Dr. …

Episode 27: My Father Is A Pedophile-Jimmy Hinton Part 2

Diana WinklerChristianity, clergy abuse, Episodes, sexual abuse, shame, spiritual abuse

We continue our conversation with Pastor Jimmy Hinton this week, who had to turn his own father in to the police for pedophilia. Find out the sequence of events after Jimmy’s father is arrested and placed in prison with a life sentence. Jimmy describes how pedophiles think and how they abuse and manipulate their victims even from prison. He defines …

Episode 26: My Father Is A Pedophile: Pastor Jimmy Hinton Part One

Diana WinklerChristianity, clergy abuse, Episodes, sexual abuse, shame, spiritual abuse

Could you turn in your own parent to the police for committing unspeakable crimes of pedophilia? Would you be able to spot a pedophile in your midst? Pastor Jimmy Hinton and his family lived through this horrendous nightmare when he discovered that his father, a respected pastor and beloved member of the community, was secretly sexually abusing hundreds of children …

Episode 20: Pastor Kyle Fox: What Does A Healthy Church Look Like?

Diana WinklerChristian Music, Christianity, clergy abuse, Episodes, shame, spiritual abuse

Do you know what are the signs of healthy church? Many survivors are shell shocked from the aftermath of abuse that they don’t even know if they can trust a church again. Our guest today is Diana’s pastor, Kyle Fox, Senior Pastor of Red Mountain Community Church. Come and find out important questions you should be asking when looking for …

Episode 14: Survivor Story: Sandy Phillips Kirkham – Let Me Prey On You

Diana Winklerclergy abuse, Episodes, Physical Violence, sexual abuse, shame, spiritual abuse

We have a survivor story of clergy abuse on today’s episode. Our guest is Sandy Phillips Kirkham, author of the book, Let Me Prey Upon You. It tells the horrific story of how she was methodically groomed by her youth pastor when she was 16 years old and suffered sexual, emotional, and physical abuse. Join us on a journey with …

Episode 9: Let’s Talk About Trust Part 2: God and the Bible

Diana Winklerclergy abuse, Domestic Violence, Episodes, mental illness, Physical Violence, sexual abuse, spiritual abuse

Can we trust God and the Bible in the midst of our suffering? Diana explores these questions. She also gives tips on bible study and praying when you don’t feel like it. She extends her Christmas greetings with her favorite Christmas carol, O Holy Night. show notes: My blog post about our Israel trip: https://dswministries.orgwhat-they-dont-tell-you-about-your-pilgrimage-to-israel/ https://www.crossway.org/bibles/esv-archaeology-study-bible-hccase/ https://www.christianbook.com/page/bible-studies?navcat=Bible-Study https://waynestiles.com/ Link Tree …

Episode 2: Co-host Brian-Tragedies, Music, and Jesus

Diana WinklerChristian Music, clergy abuse, Domestic Violence, Episodes, Health, spiritual abuse

In this two part series, meet Diana’s husband, Brian, as he talks about his upbringing, the tragedy of his parents’ deaths, and becoming a Christian at 8 years old. He also shares crazy stories of his days as a professional Christian musician in the 90’s, and how God was trying to get his attention with a brush with death. The …